Feb 03, 2015 • 4 min read
In just the last two decades, coaches are finally realizing the tremendous impact they can have on their win/loss record and the respect of their athletes by coaching the mental game.
There are still plenty of old-school coaches out there who ignore the reasons why such brilliant coaches as Phil Jackson, Bill Walsh and Tommy Lasorda were so successful. These coachesâ€”and every other wildly successful coachâ€”understand human psychology and how to get the most out of their human athletes.
The problem with old-school coaches is that in the back of their minds, they know they have an unlimited source of athletes ready to take the place the place of any athlete that just doesnâ€™t fit with â€œmy way of doing things.â€ The old-school coach may even have some success at some point and think, â€œThatâ€™s what I should repeat for more success.â€ And then the coach gets a whole new set of players who donâ€™t respond to his rigid methods.
What I recommend to coaches is to have a simple structure or framework for mental lessons that can easily be taught and referenced when working on physical skills and in competition. Make up your own or feel free to use mine:
Start your season by introducing your mental game structure just like you do for your physical training. Have a mental game meeting and just talk about Mental Toughness to get buy in and a basic understanding. Then, in a practice when you see mental weakness, you can highlight it and give the player a thought or technique to work on it. Because you introduced your mental training at the beginning of the season, touching back on that philosophy throughout the season will come as no surprise.
For example, a coach watches a player in practice get too angry after making a mistake. The coach could say:
â€œMary, what if you got that angry/frustrated in the beginning of the game after making a mistake? Would you be able to play your best for the rest of the game? Which of the mental principles we talked about do you need to practice right now?â€
If Mary canâ€™t remember, simply remind her and give her a mental technique just like you would a physical technique. This is what practice is for: catching our mistakes and working to improve our skills, physical and mental.
Old-school coaches give short shrift to the mental game and therefore set themselves up to all sorts of problems with their players that only show up in competition because they have not been practiced in advance.
The quote from Bill Walsh above is such common sense that it needs no explanation, yet old-school coaches just figure athletes need to do this on their own, and if they donâ€™t, well thereâ€™s another person waiting to take their place.
These coaches are throwing away amazing talent every season.
If you, as a coach, are not incorporating some kind of mental game training and lessons in your program you are simply handicapping yourselfâ€”thereâ€™s no way around it. Your competition knows the value of teaching players how to shape their mind and master their emotions to be in alignment with winning. In the past generations, there were no sports psychologists or mental game experts and so coaches who figured all of this out on their own, like Vince Lombardi, had a huge edge over everyone else. Today, itâ€™s a necessity.
Craig Siglâ€™s work with youth athletes has been featured on NBC TV and ESPN. Get his free ebook: â€œThe 10 Commandments For a Great Sports Parentâ€ and also a free training and .mp3 guided visualization to help young athletes perform under pressure by visitingÂ http://MentalToughnessTrainer.com.